Stuck to Secure - Come Home to Yourself in 21 Days
Next Round: 1st March 2026
You know the cycle.
The one where you're triggered, overwhelmed, and reacting before you even realise it.
It might look like:
- Anxiety, feeling sick, and worried you have done something wrong or will do
- Obsessing over a message that hasn't come through and expecting the worst
- Replaying a conversation a thousand times in your head, wondering how you came across
- Worrying non stop about the week ahead
- Perfectionism and procrastination
- Ruminating over the past and ignoring the present
- Convincing yourself your partner is mad at you or will leave you for some reason
- Feeling embarrassed/worried about what you said or did in front of others
- Harshly comparing yourself to a colleague, friend, or everyone
- Replaying conversations over and over, thinking about what you said wrong
- Constantly worrying about what’s next
- Shaming yourself with self-criticism and shame
- Arguing with yourself in an attempt to ease your mind
- Going to bed or waking up weighed down by dread, worry, and tension in your body
- Not actually knowing what's wrong but feeling anxious, down, stuck, or "off"
- Getting stuck in past regrets and missing the present moment
You’ve read the books. Watched the videos. Listened to the podcasts. You know what needs to change… but nothing is actually changing.
That’s because insight isn’t enough.
You don’t just need to understand the cycle, you need to break it.
And that’s exactly what we’ll do. Together.
Join Carly Ann for a 21-day guided experience where you’ll zoom in on one cycle you’re stuck in - the one that’s keeping you anxious, reactive, and feeling like you’re “too much” or “not enough.”
Instead of trying to fix everything, we’ll target this one pattern, and practise the daily tools that actually shift it.
You’ll learn to calm your system, change your responses, and build a sense of self-worth and safety - from the inside out.
And 21 days from now?
My hope is that you won’t just feel different - you’ll be different.
Calmer. Clearer. More confident.
You’ll walk away with tools that make you feel grounded, magnetic, and deeply secure.
Plus, sign up now to get BONUS access to The Attachment Recovery Gym - A library full of Self-Help resources, workshops, meditations, bundles, + more - designed to help relationship and dating anxiety