Becoming Secure
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The only course that closes the gap between what you know in your head and how you show up every day... so you stop overthinking, start living, and move confidently towards who you want to be: secure and whole.
An immersive 6-week journey for you, ready to heal old patterns and come back to yourself - so you can show up fully in your relationships and life
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YES I AM IN"Joining Becoming Secure It felt like a brilliant investment in my own mental wellbeing. Dating is hard enough, when you have an anxious attachment style, it can feel impossible. After this programme, I feel like I have the tools to be more successful at dating and I have come away with more determination than I have had in a long time to continue looking for love and hold onto hope of finding the right person"
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"Saying yes to Becoming Secure was my best decision! I very nearly said no but I had tried everything! By far the best results are that Iām less reactive and have more control! I can control my anxiety when Iām waiting for that text or Iām in the unknown - thatās changed me! Iām a lot less self critical and that means Iām happier, which means my relationship has a LOT less drama! couldnāt ask for more! Thank you!"
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Youāve done the workā¦ but something still feels missing...
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Youāve read the books.
Youāve journaled the prompts.
Youāve even had therapy or worked with a coach.
On paper, youāve built a good life... a career you care about, friendships you value, moments youāre grateful for.
But thereās still a part of you that doesnāt feel fully settled.
- Maybe you overthink conversations long after theyāve happened.
- Maybe your mind spirals when something feels uncertain - in work, friendships, or love.
- Maybe you have a hard time switching off, trusting the process, or just being content.
You know the tools. You get the theory.
But when life gets messy, the old patterns still take over.
Thatās what I call the head-heart lagĀ - knowing whatās healthy but not fully feeling it.
Becoming Secure is where that changes.
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Imagine waking up and not instantly checking your phone to see if someoneās replied.
Imagine going through your day without replaying conversations in your head on a loop.
Imagine making a decision (in love, work, or life) and not spiralling into "what if Iāve got it wrong?" or "What if I regret this"
Over 6 weeks, weāre going to retrain your mind and mood so you can:
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Switch off the mental noise that keeps you tense, distracted, and second-guessing yourself.
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Feel calm and content even when plans change, people are unpredictable, or life feels uncertain
- Show up as the partner & person you want to beĀ - grounded, confident, fun, and able to be yourselfĀ love without the fear and overthinking
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Show up with confidence in relationships, on date, with friendships, and your career - without fear running the show
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Trust yourself deeply so you can take risks, speak your truth, and go after what you want without looking for constant reassurance.
Itās not about becoming perfect or never feeling anxious again.
Itās about becoming the version of you who knows, āWhatever happens, I can handle it - and Iām absolutely worthy of love, joy, and peaceā
MEET YOUR HOST
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Iām Carly Ann, and Iāve had the honour of helping thousands of women turn their lives around. If youāre struggling with anxious attachment and are ready for a change, know that real, lasting change is within your grasp.
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In Becoming Secure, weāll work together to tackle the thoughts that fuel your anxiety. Youāll learn to accept your emotions without letting them control you and develop practical skills to manage intense feelings. Through this process, youāll gain the confidence and security you deserve in your relationships and within yourself.
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If youāre eager to break free from the patterns that have been holding you back, Iām here to support you every step of the way. Letās begin this journey to a more secure and fulfilling life together.
