Becoming Secure
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A therapeutic programme for adults ready to reparent themselves, heal old wounds, and develop the skills to create fulfilling relationships they never had growing up
This is especially for you if you struggle to feel the change, get out of your head, or shake that anxious mood no matter how much you understand whatâs wrong.
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APPLY HERE FOR THE NEXT ROUND & JOIN THE WAITLIST"Joining Becoming Secure It felt like a brilliant investment in my own mental wellbeing. Dating is hard enough, when you have an anxious attachment style, it can feel impossible. After this programme, I feel like I have the tools to be more successful at dating and I have come away with more determination than I have had in a long time to continue looking for love and hold onto hope of finding the right person"
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"Saying yes to Becoming Secure was my best decision! I very nearly said no but I had tried everything! By far the best results are that Iâm less reactive and have more control! I can control my anxiety when Iâm waiting for that text or Iâm in the unknown - thatâs changed me! Iâm a lot less self critical and that means Iâm happier, which means my relationship has a LOT less drama! couldnât ask for more! Thank you!"
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Does This Sound Like You?
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- You spend so much time worrying, overthinking, & obsessing, your missing out on the present moment
- You picture your partner cheating, your friend replacing you, and your boss secretly hating you
- You ruminate about your ex even though you know the relationship was flawed
- The reassurance you get from others either doesn't work or it doesn't last
- You get particularly hooked on people if they pull away
- You get really anxious & panicky when you're apart from your personÂ
- You have uncontrollable thoughts about not being important or a priority
- You know you put your worth and happiness in someone else's hands
- You tend to feel happier and in your power when you are single
- You crave happiness and peace of mind
- You have wounds and pain from the past that come up in your current relationships
- Youâre harder on yourself than anyone elseÂ
- You feel bored or unsure about secure, consistent partners
- Break-ups are more painful for you than other people
- you fall into patterns of jealousy and comparison - and you hate that
- You want to feel confident in yourself
- Youâre ready to break free from this cycle


MEET YOUR HOST
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Iâm Carly Ann, and Iâve had the honour of helping thousands of women turn their lives around. If youâre struggling with anxious attachment and are ready for a change, know that real, lasting change is within your grasp.
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In Becoming Secure, weâll work together to tackle the thoughts that fuel your anxiety. Youâll learn to accept your emotions without letting them control you and develop practical skills to manage intense feelings. Through this process, youâll gain the confidence and security you deserve in your relationships and within yourself.
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If youâre eager to break free from the patterns that have been holding you back, Iâm here to support you every step of the way. Letâs begin this journey to a more secure and fulfilling life together.

